• It depends on the individual and their emotional state: Just like people have different tastes in pizza toppings, they also have varying reactions to being dumped. Some might be quick to pick up the phone while others may need some time to process what just happened.
• Some people may reach out after being dumped to seek closure or express their feelings: Think of it as a post-breakup therapy session where they want to understand why things ended and maybe even try to convince her that they’re actually not so bad after all.
• Others may choose not to contact their ex-partner as a way of respecting their decision: They might take the high road and respect her choice by giving her space without any unnecessary drama or attempts at winning them back with grand gestures like serenading outside her window (unless he’s got an amazing voice).
• He might contact her if he still has strong feelings and hopes for reconciliation: Love can make us do crazy things! If he’s head over heels for her, there’s a chance he’ll muster up the courage (or desperation) to reach out in hopes of rekindling that flame.
• On the other hand, he might decide to move on and focus on himself instead: Sometimes self-love takes precedence over trying again with someone who doesn’t see his true worth. So don’t be surprised if you find him posting gym selfies or indulging in some retail therapy instead of texting back.
• It’s important for her to consider why she dumped him in the first place and whether or not those reasons still hold true: Before getting too caught up wondering about his next move, she should reflect on why she made this decision. Are those dealbreakers still valid? Or was it just one hangry argument?
• If she ended the relationship on good terms and maintained a level of respect, he may be more likely to reach out: Mutual understanding can go a long way when it comes to post-breakup communication. If they managed to part ways without throwing plates at each other, there’s a higher chance of him wanting to keep the lines of communication open.
• However, if there were hurtful words exchanged or unresolved issues, he might choose to keep his distance: Let’s face it, nobody enjoys being called names or having their deepest insecurities thrown in their face. In such cases, he may decide that silence is golden and opt for some much-needed self-care instead.
• She should give him space and time to process the breakup before expecting any contact from him: Just like pizza needs time in the oven to become deliciously cheesy and crispy (mmm…pizza), he too needs time after a breakup. So don’t expect an immediate response; let things cool down first.
• It’s crucial for her to focus on her own healing and personal growth rather than waiting around for his response: While she might be tempted to constantly check her phone hoping for a text from him like a kid waiting for Santa Claus, it’s important not to put life on hold. Take this opportunity as a fresh start—try new hobbies or eat all the ice cream you want!